Ladies, what's the one thing that men want and don't get adequate of? No, it's not more money (we all want that), it's not a threesome (though for some it might be) and it's not home cooking (he can get that anywhere). We're talking oral sex. Let that sink in - what men de facto want is oral sex.
All men love it and some even prefer it over intercourse itself. How can that be, you ask, when intercourse is so 'intimate' whereas oral stimulation is not? Well, for you (as a woman), you see the act of intercourse as 'best' - this is the case for most women. However, for a man (most men that is), the very act of you going down on him and pleasuring him is 'the ultimate'. With the aggregate of licks, sucks and strokes, you can take your man to new heights and drive him de facto wild. Seriously! So, note to self, better sex for your man equals oral sex.
Now, if you know this is what he feels when you're giving him oral stimulation, why would you want to deprive him? Of procedure it's only natural to feel a tad apprehensive if you're not already indulging in his popular pastime but, just think of it this way and ask yourself; if you take on the 'challenge' and fulfill your man in this way, what would you get in return?
No doubt your man is going to appreciate you much more, he's going to be more attentive to you and he's going to want to 'please' you in return. There are so many benefits and advantages, to you 'both' by you pleasing him orally.
As mentioned above, if you're nervous, it's only natural. And as with anyone else, you can 'learn' how to accomplish oral stimulation on your man. Not just any old oral mind you, rather mind-blowing oral sex. If you're going to go 'down' on him, you might as well 'really do the business', so to speak.
Just remember, better sex for men and what they de facto want, when all is said and done, is oral, pure and simple.